SACRAMENTAL PREPARATION
Sacramental Preparation
in the Pastorate of St. Francis-St. Mary and Holy Family
The sacraments are incredible moments of grace that unite us more fully to God and to our Church community! As we prepare to receive the sacraments, it is vital to focus on and foster our relationship with God and the Church. As we all know from life experience, genuine and deep relationships can’t be forged in a rush, but they are grown and deepened slowly over time through hundreds of moments and encounters. The same is true in our relationship with God and the Church!
This is why the sacramental preparation process stretches over a couple of years. It allows time for the child to form deep and lasting connections with God and the Church. When we commit this time and effort to a long and deep sacramental preparation, receiving the sacraments becomes such an incredibly joyful experience for the child!
Therefore, one completed year of faith formation is required the year before a family signs up their child to prepare for first reconciliation, first Communion, or confirmation, AND the child must also be currently enrolled in and attending faith formation during the sacramental preparation year as well. This faith formation can take place in a parish setting (as in our Family Faith Formation program) or in a Catholic school.
Please reach out to our Faith Formation Team at faithformation@thepastorate.org if you have any other questions!
Fall '26 Sacramental Preparation is Closed.
Please see the Spring dates below.
SPRING '26 First Reconciliation Preparation Schedule
Wednesday, Jan. 28, 6-7pm
Wednesday, Feb. 11, 6-7pm
Wednesday, Feb. 25, 6-7pm
SPRING '26 First Communion Preparation Schedule
Wednesday, Apr. 15, 6-7pm
Wednesday, Apr. 22, 6-7pm
Wednesday, Apr. 29, 6-7pm
First Reconciliation and First Communion
Children are welcome to register for the sacramental preparation program for first reconciliation and first Communion starting in their 2nd grade year (or at 7 years of age).
For the First Reconciliation and First Communion Preparation Program:
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You must be a registered parishioner within the Pastorate of St. Francis-St. Mary & Holy Family in order for your child to receive these sacraments at Holy Family. We also need a copy of your child’s baptismal certificate (if your child was not baptized at Holy Family or St. Mary’s).
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To prepare for First Reconciliation, you and your child will attend 3 workshop sessions on Wednesday evenings from 6-7pm. These three workshops are offered once every semester, so you may choose to register for our FALL program or our SPRING program. If you and your child miss one of the preparation workshops for any reason, you will need to wait until the next semester to complete that workshop. Once you and your child have attended all three First Reconciliation Prep Workshops, you may sign your child up to receive first Reconciliation on a Saturday at 3:30pm.
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Your child will also complete a Mass Passport booklet. Every time your family attends Sunday Mass (or the Saturday vigil Mass), your child will complete a reflection page about something he or she noticed in Mass and then ask a greeter to stamp that page for them. There are 10 pages to be completed (over the course of 10 Sundays).
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To prepare for First Communion, you and your child will attend 3 workshops on Wednesday evenings from 6-7pm. These three sessions are offered once every semester, so you may choose to register for our FALL program or our SPRING program. If you and your child miss one of the workshops for any reason, you will need to wait until the next semester to complete that particular workshop. After…
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you and your child have attended all three First Communion Prep Workshops,
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your child has received First Reconciliation,
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and once the Mass Passport is completed,
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then you may sign your child up to receive first Communion. We will offer First Communion once a month at our Sunday Masses. Date selection for First Communion will be first-come, first-serve (once the above requirements have been met).
To REGISTER for our 2025-2026 First Reconciliation and Communion Preparation Program, please complete this registration form. Within the form, you will be asked to select whether you would like to participate in the FALL 2025 or SPRING 2026 Workshops (see dates below).
Please note that there is a registration fee of $50 to offset material costs. Remember that you also need to either register for Family Faith Formation OR have your child enrolled in Catholic school.
Confirmation
Teens are welcome to register for the sacramental preparation program for Confirmation starting in their 10th grade year. The Confirmation preparation program will take place within the context of our Pastorate’s Family Faith Formation program. The whole family is welcome to participate, but at least one parent/guardian and the teen are required to attend together. This program generally includes 8 sessions in the Fall and 8 sessions in the Spring (and a participant must attend at least 6 sessions per semester to be considered attending).
Our 2025-26 Confirmation preparation program is currently Closed. Please reach out to faithformation@thepastorate.org for questions.
Confirmation Schedule 2025-2026
The Confirmation preparation program occurs during Family Faith Formation. Please see the schedule of classes on the Faith Formation page here.
Oct.12, 2025 FULL DAY Confirmation Retreat
June. 13, 2026 Confirmation Mass 1:00pm
